Family and Tradition

There is simply nothing like family. : ) I absolutely love tradition... why? Well, I am sure it has to do with the fact that I can count on it every year, I look forward to it, it brings up fond memories and most of all tradition brings people together.

My family and I have a fun tradition of tearing up the bread for our Thanksgiving stuffing together and throwing it in a bowl... but the simple part is... everyone does it.

Now, growing up we had certain traditions that I looked forward to like none other! Decorating the Christmas tree was one of those traditions. The whole family was involved and I simply delighted in the merry company of my family. I am sure the fact that decorating was a part of the chore made it that much more appealing to me, since I LOVE to decorate. I think most women do, we just want to make things beautiful... its a calling.

Unfortunately as I grew up I had to embrace a new idea and tradition which was that traditions change, therefore if your mindset is stayed on one thing, you will be constantly disappointed. My mother used to warn me to not get my hopes up so much concerning certain things. She just knew how much value I would place on a person, activity, etc. only to be crushed later because my expectations weren't fulfilled. She is so wise and realized early on how fragile I was in my hoping. The reality of it all is that she was correct and I am glad she mentally prepared me for life. When I look back on my life thus far I can see how God has constantly placed me in situations and scenarios that have taken me out of my comfort zone.

Bottom line: things change and thats okay. Tradition is a wonderful thing, but I must always be open to new traditions and saying goodbye to old ones.